"Social" drumming involves listening to other musicians in the band and adapting one's drumming to fit the overall sound and style of the music. It requires drummers to be aware of the other instruments in the band and play in a way that complements them. By doing so, drummers can create a sense of unity within the band and make the music sound better as a whole.
In his clinic, Jeff Porcaro emphasizes the importance of being "social" when drumming and explains how it can help drummers connect with the music and musicians on a deeper level. By listening and adapting to the other instruments in the band, drummers can create a cohesive and harmonious sound that elevates the music.